April 30, 2008
The other night when I went to fetch Yiu Yiu from the babysitter, she was just settling into an episode of Barney. As she saw me walked into the house, she said, “Mummy, I finish watching Barney first. You sit down first la” making herself completely at home.
At the babysitter, unpleasant things can also happen…
Yiu Yiu is totally pampered at the babysitter since she’s the youngest and everyone in the babysitter’s family and the two elder boys give in to her. After I persuaded her to switch off the Barney VCD to go home, she put the CD back into the casing and wanted to put it back on the TV cabinet. However, as the babysitter was standing in her way, she shouted at the babysitter to move away. I reprimanded her straight away and since she knows she’s wrong (and therefore felt that she’s lost face), she started throwing tantrums. Sigh! Such bad behaviours.
At the babysitter, she also picks up bad behaviours…
The two boys’ mum (let’s call her Mrs C) always has some sweets in her purse which she sometimes offers to Yiu Yiu as a treat. Yesterday evening when Mrs C went to pick up her boys, Yiu Yiu as usual asked for her treats but when Mrs C said she had none, Yiu Yiu stuck her tongue out at Mrs C, followed by showing Mrs C her butt.
While the babysitter’s daughter (let’s call her PY) was doing her homework, Yiu Yiu went to disturb. When PY reprimanded her, Yiu Yiu taunted PY by calling her “Fatty Bom Bom” repeatedly. I don’t think Yiu Yiu actually understood what it meant as PY is rather skinny but she probably just said it for fun.
I felt bad when the babysitter related these two incidents to me. I know she definitely didn’t pick them up at home, since neither hubby nor I do or say these things. And since the only other place she’s at is at the babysitter, I suspect the two boys picked these up from school and she simply imitates them. Sigh! This is the kind of guilt I have to deal with for not being able to devote my time to bring her up on my own terms.
April 27, 2008
We still put her on diapers when we go out, just in case we can't find a toilet in time or there’s no clean toilet in sight. It's for "insurance" more than anything else. She's also still on diapers at night but I'm contemplating letting her go diaperless as well. Some people said I'll just need to wake her up to pee in the middle of the night, but what if she refused to go back to sleep after that - I'll end up like a big panda. How do mummies train their children not to wet the bed at night?
April 26, 2008
We’ve only been there once with Yiu Yiu when she was younger so she probably didn’t quite enjoy the park then. Today, she was so excited seeing the fishes and tortoises in the pond gobbling up the bread thrown into the pond. Then there were monkeys, and we saw few mother monkeys with their baby hanging onto the mummy’s stomach.
She was equally intrigued watching other kids catching those little fishes and prawns in the stream with nets, and promptly took off her slippers and walked into the clear stream too. She was enjoying herself thoroughly playing with water and sand, and promptly got herself wet.
Clockwise from top left: running away from mummy, looking longingly at the children by the stream, taking her first steps in the water, little lamb lost
Clockwise from top left: grabbing some sand from the stream; getting ready to throw; here you go; Ah! Mission accomplished
A contented little girl
We left at about 7.15pm as it was getting dark, and her royal highness gave instructions that she wanted to come to the park again.
April 21, 2008
As her comprehension and verbalisation skills grow by the day, it can get really funny with her around these days. Here are some tickling conversations:
Yiu Yiu: Papa, see, ball ball
Papa: Where got ball ball?
Yiu Yiu (pointing to papa's tummy): Neh…papa tummy ball ball ah
Papa: Opppsss! (Note to papa from mummy – time to reduce that spare tyre of yours)
Her current favourite word is naughty. She probably learned this word from hubby and I who kept asking her not to do this and that, and not to be naughty. Now whenever she asks anything from us and we don’t oblige, she'll reprimand us, "Naughty"!
Yiu Yiu (sitting on the dining chair): Mummy, carry
Mummy: Doing something else and ignored her
Yiu Yiu: Mummy carry Yiu Yiu ah. Afterwards Yiu Yiu fall down ah…NAUGHTY!
Mummy was working on mummy's laptop when Yiu Yiu came over.
Yiu Yiu: I wanna play mummy's computer
Mummy: Mummy working ah…cannot play
Yiu Yiu: I wanna play mummy's computer ah…NAUGHTY!
Yiu Yiu knows that in order to buy something, we need to give money to the merchants. She's now into the habit of asking "Mummy buy this, mummy buy that". Here's a snippet of our conversation:
Yiu Yiu: Mummy, I wanna buy Barney. Mummy, I wanna buy Thomas and Friends.
Mummy: Yiu Yiu wanna buy? Yiu Yiu got money meh?
Yiu Yiu: No, mummy money buy!
Mummy was angry with Yiu Yiu coz she refused to eat her dinner yet again.
Papa: Why is mummy angry?
Yiu Yiu: Yiu Yiu don't want to eat lor.
Yiu Yiu (decided to watch Barney): Mummy, I wanna watch Barney
Without even waiting for my response, she then said:
Yiu Yiu: Mummy angry, papa switch on Barney for Yiu Yiu.
April 16, 2008
Yiu Yiu (trying to make peace with mummy, snuggled close and in a manja voice): Mummy, mummy, mummy, mummy,
Mummy (continued to ignore her to show mummy's anger)
Yiu Yiu (in a stern voice): Mummy, ask me
Mummy (saying in my heart): Huh! Ask me?!!
Yiu Yiu (repeating in a stern voice): Mummy, ask me
Mummy couldn't contain her laughter anymore and chuckled out loud. Actually she was trying to ask mummy to answer her, but I guess she couldn't find the right word and simply substituted it with something she knows.
April 15, 2008
New Zealand is a truly amazing country. The landscape and natural beauty will blow your mind away. Astounding, awesome, magnificent – these superlatives won't even do justice to the beauty of this country. To top it off, New Zealanders are a really friendly breed. There's so much I'd like to share about this trip to New Zealand, but I know it'll take some time before I can sort out the photos and write some decent posts. But first, if you'll excuse me, I'll need to plough through over 400 emails in my Inbox, and catch up on reading tens, if not hundreds of posts of blogs I frequent.